God’s Design for Marriage

Like other things we see God creating in Genesis chapters 1 and 2, we also learn that God created marriage. For some marriage is discarded as “just a piece of paper.” For others it is one of the best relationships they have. Since God created marriage we can say with confidence, it is good and has purpose. So, what is His design for marriage?

In Genesis 2.24 we see four guiding principles for marriage. First, marriage is a relationship between a man and a woman. Next, marriage is an exclusive union. The phrase “leave his father and mother” implies that couples need to stand on their own and not be dependent upon family. It also implies that extramarital relationships work against the marriage. Third, marriage is to be a permanent union. The phrase “hold fast” means to stay together, (cf. Matt. 19.6). While divorce is permitted under limited conditions, staying together is how we grow. Finally, marriage is a sacred union. A husband and wife are to become “one flesh.” This is far more than just sexual union. It points to a deeper spiritual and emotional union.

When it comes to marriage are your beliefs and practices, if you are married, aligned with Scripture? While those who choose to violate the things laid out in Scripture can do what they want, (Rom. 1, 24ff.), the final outcome will be grim, (1 Cor. 6.9-10). But those who choose to practice the Biblical principles of marriage will experience the blessings God designed marriage to bring to a husband and wife.

Father, thank You for creating marriage. While married couples will face challenges, Your Word shows that when each person does their part to faithfully follow You, they can share in the joy You have designed marriage to bring. Give me the resolve to follow your design for marriage.